I wonder why
Can somebody answer me for the questions below?
Why do we feel that the other side is greener?
Why do we feel that certain things could have done better if it had happened now?
Why do we feel that certain matter should have not told that day?
Why do we feel lonely even after being in a crowd?
Why do we feel that at times nobody feels your pain?
Why do we feel void even after having everything in life?
Why do we lose the charm after possessing the one we wanted?
Why do we get things when we try to get rid of it?
Why do we lose things when we badly wish for it?
Why do we feel that we should have born somewhere else?
Why do we feel that at times we are the best/worst in the world?
Why do we feel that we didn’t live the life to the fullest?
Why do we feel that we are right,no matter what others say?
Why do we feel that certain questions can never have answers?
And why do I feel this way?
You are homesick and struck by the back-to-work virus after the holiday.
I don’t know Zephyr..
but yeah..I’m slightly depressed
I could try my best to put light on every single question of your’s … oh my ! but that would take ages…
Just a simple answer would go like this.. “Becoz… It’s humane… “..
doesn’t know whether you get convinced…
Seems like you are sad out of some incident/situation… never mind… like the great birbal said: “This time too will pass… ”
Don’t reply when you are sad- happened to read somewhere… might help you
lets hope that I pass this phase soon
Thanks Akhi..
Ur always welcome
LIFE.
up and downs ..
difficult questions with not very easy answers ..
but get up , smile and the world will smile with you ..
take care ..
Smile?
i feel difficult to smile these days..i’m scared that I may forget to smile if I continue this way
Duuhuh!!! Its simple Bhavia… Get a mirror. Open your nice big eyes…
1 2 3 EEEEEE
As a rule,man is a fool
when it is hot he wants cold
when its cold he wants it hot
always wanting what is not.
It’s not like I want something which I’m not having now..but its like a conundrum which makes me depressed at times ;(
Not always but sometimes when we are really dissatisfied with something that matters to us, then everything might seem to be wrong with everything else too… the same things might feel much better (or perfectly satisfying) in other circumstances. I am sure this is a passing phase, the grass would soon be the prettiest green in your own backyard
Best wishes!
I wish IHM..
Thank you
The same reason the sun rises in the east Bhavia.
It is a natural phase and one each of us goes through. I am sure you will find answers soon. Answers that will hold meaning for you as anyway these questions do not have a single, straight answer that is valid for all.
Good luck and hugs.
Thanks Debo sweetie
Let this go past fast..
I am sure you’re all cheered up now. Here’s something that may add to it.
muaah
thank you..
Why do we feel that the other side is greener?
Because we do not know the value of what we have.
Why do we feel that certain things could have done better if it had happened now?
Because we haven’t been matured enough to do the right thing at right time.
Why do we feel that certain matter should have not told that day?
Always think before you speak, but some things are still unpredictable
Why do we feel lonely even after being in a crowd?
We did not pick the right crowd
Why do we feel that at times nobody feels your pain?
Do you feel pain if I prick myself? You will definitely feel pain if you try to prick me with your hand and hurt yourself while pricking me.
Why do we feel void even after having everything in life?
Because we are humans, our needs are always unlimited.
Why do we lose the charm after possessing the one we wanted?
Things are not the same as you see it and have it.
Why do we get things when we try to get rid of it?
Just bad luck!! A lot of random things happen quite often!!
Why do we lose things when we badly wish for it?
Still bad luck!!
Why do we feel that we should have born somewhere else?
Grass is always greener in the other side!!
Why do we feel that at times we are the best/worst in the world?
No one is youer than you. You are always at your best in your own way! In the “worst” case, you always have the choice of defining yourselves.
Why do we feel that we didn’t live the life to the fullest?
Probably because living the life to the fullest is not always the best or the only choice and it depends on the definition of the expression “Living the life”…
Why do we feel that we are right,no matter what others say?
Nothing is right, nothing is wrong. Everything is either facts or accidents!!
Why do we feel that certain questions can never have answers?
Every question is answerable! It is a matter of what you can accept in those answers!
NB: Change all the “we”s in the answers to “I”s if applicable!!
Thanks for your thought provoking post!!
Raghu
Thanks Raghu for such a detailed explanation
lie down.. close your eyes.. put some melodies in background and relax..you wont find the answers but you might forget the questions..
pareekshanangal nadakkunnu
I can give you answers but they wont help you. The only answers that will ever help is the ones that come from within. Hope you regain your spirits and make sure that you have a wonderful year ahead
Thank you Zach..wish you a great year ahead!!
hii..
Nice Post Great job.
Thanks bantlan..Keep visiting
I don’t think there can be a simple, firm one line answer to these questions. The questions arise, I think, depending on our mood swings- whether we feel high or low. Coming to think of it, we have less questions when we feel high. Most of the ‘soul searching’ questions arise when we feel low.
Welcome to my blog Hariharan
and yeah..we do have very less questions when we feel high
I am visiting you today from my friend Bikram’s Space and hopefully to cheer you up a little too, well best not look at my Gravatar then or you will be put off before I have even finished my comment
lol
The question of WHY?
I guess this is a very common scenario but you know everything will be fine my friend and those rather melancholy thoughts will soon be replaced with happy and jovial ones… The kind that makes one giggle inside
I hope so anyway as you seem a very nice person. Have a lovely day and think happy thoughts now 
Androgoth
Thank you so much Androgoth
and Welcome to my blog!!